“Have compassion for yourself and love for yourself and embrace yourself but also be aware of the fact that you are not entitled to anyone serving your needs.” And that isn't a value judgment on who you are as a person, or as a sexual being,” she says. Mistress Tokyo also says hopefully you’re with someone who is supportive of you asking for what you want. “But if someone does say yes to you like ‘yes holy shit, I'm really into this, let's go.’ Or, ‘hey babe, I love you, so I'm interested in exploring this with you,’ just be aware that you really respect your partner's boundaries.” What if your partner tells you? “If they're not, then I think that may be something that you might want to consider as an area of your relationship that you might want to actually work on,” she told The Hook Up. If someone is open and honest with you and tells you they have a foot fetish, Mistress Tokyo says be open, curious, willing to ask questions and learn. Then she says if they’re asking you to do certain things, like for example licking your toe, take a moment to imagine that scenario happening and check in with yourself about how it makes you feel in your body. Thomas Put your best foot forward to have some fun “Trust your intuition and your body to tell you whether this really is an activity that you want to explore or not.” “So just stop and drop into your body and give yourself some deep breaths, a moment of mindfulness and check in with what your body says about this activity,” she says. Working as a dominatrix, Mistress Tokyo says some of the most popular things people are into, and you could try, are things like: If you’ve decided to dip your toes into your partner's fetish, there’s a lot of fun you can have.
Inserting the toes and using the foot to penetrate.